We are filled with good intentions till you add alcohol.
Till he is ready to seek answers and find solutions...
You need take care of you.
He may be at the first step but the next step can come in the morning or never come at all....Doing something about it.
Till he is ready... Take care of you.
His issues...He needs find his own answers. You can point him in the right direction such as AA but only he can put his feet in motion to get there.
Till then...take care of you.