Thoughts on this please....
Heard from my son today...says he's doing "ok", said that he has not been using since he left Teen Challenge, hasn't drank either. He says he doesn't need drugs anymore, after 3 months in TC he did learn something (according to him). The fact remains that he is still violating probation, and when/if they catch up with him he will surely go to jail and then prison.
Here is the thing...he's hungry. LOL yeah, hungry. Says he's lost 10 pounds since leaving TC 2 weeks ago. I am going to get some of his clothes to him somehow, maybe through someone else, do you think that it is "enabling" him to send some food? I know this sounds just stupid probably, but the mom in me says to give him some food (we had a ton of stuff left over from our superbowl party). My husband is kind of against it, says that it's just getting me wrapped up in the drama again, and I told my son "NO MONEY"...hmmmm - what to do