Jen -
Your story made my heart sing. I am really happy for you and know how hard you have worked to get to where you are. It sounds like happiness has crept up on you and plans to stay.
I also think that it is so helpful that you came and posted this. I know that there are so many new people in so much pain and don't know how to do what you've done. It helps to hear that there is happiness even when hard decisions and steps have to be taken.
Good for you! I'm really happy for you - Donna