I know this is a huge article and I hestitated posting it for that reason. However, it was only when I understood what I was contributing to (and in fact requiring from) my relationships could any light be shed on, well, me. I urge anyone clicking on it and being put off by the length of it to give it a shot.
Actually, it is really pertinent for me at the moment. I seem to have got to grips with the other people bit of this (for the most part), however the Triangle is operating at full speed within my own head. The thoughts seem to be too quick for me to catch - I guess awareness is good, though, right?
edit - glad it helped, LF. People dynamics is a real interest if mine and I am betting that most people would find life less confusing when they understand why people interact in the ways they do.