Yes~~You are a star Sleepgoat. Any one of us moms that has to endear all this pain for what our kids are putting themselves through is a winner in my book. I'm so sorry your going through all this and having to watch your daughter detereate (sp)). It just kills me. Can I ask you a question?? Your home group is NA? My son's choice is cocaine. I went o one N A meeting and they told me that Alanon would be so better for me. I did enjoy the NA meeting and really got alot of info from everyone there. It would seem that the recovering addicts could help us so much better than alanon. Its so hard for me to focus on myself when I'm so stuck in codendency....but I did good in the last 24 hours. Haven't rescued a soul. LOL I hope all your daughters test come back well and that she does get better soon. Have a good one, Bonnie