Originally Posted by
LaTeeDa 
Powerful words from my friend Minnie:
She's not doing it to you, she's just doing it.
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I have to say DITTO! I have those words deeply within from Minnie, a very wise one!
It feels as if she is doing it to you but honestly it is just what addicts do!
Maybe try to take the focus off her and try putting it on yourself and seeing what is out there such as Al-Anon or counseling to help you to disengage in the chaos and drama that she is creating for herself. She is making those choices to do what she is doing.....
Make the choice for you to not try to "Fix" her because let me tell you from my own expierence it will never happen! We cannot control anyone or anything but ourselves!
Lots of luck to you
