Pamm... sorry you're having to go through this stuff now. Good advice I can't really improve on. Locks changed is a good thing. Call the police next time he shows up to let him know you're seriously through with him. He sounds like he needs a strong reminder not to bother you. What Dee said and others about some face to face support... get yer ass to some sort of meeting. I don't know about the steps and all that but being with other people would probably be a really good thing. Expand your circle of physical support hun. Are there women's groups for you to join? I'm glad you have your step father coming around to help you at times like these. You will have to rely on you though when that next time comes... and you have to be strong enough to say no. I understand you're not feeling all that strong right now but you are. You really are!
