Hi Newcomer.
It took me a long time to untangle myself from my ex and his stuff. We were tangled up in all sorts of ways: financial, emotional, housewares, friends, pets, LOTS of stuff.
I had to sort of prioritize the ways I was going to disentangle from him. It's not easy ! Ultimately I had to just let some stuff go in order to maintain my boundaries and my serenity AND my sanity.
There are lots of people here who understand what you're going thru. I'm sure they'll be along soon to share their experience strength and hope.
Hugs
Cats