Have you made any boundaries concerning certain behaviours? It struck me when reading your post that if you have boundaries in place and are living by them, the cycle of...
Originally Posted by
nowinsituation 
I blow up, he's sorry, he promises to change, kiss & make up, nothing changes, pretend like everything's OK, I blow up again!!!!
will not be able to continue.
Nothing changes, if nothing changes. You cannot change him, so how are you making changes for yourself?
Lily xxxxxxxxxx