Chapter Seven: Working With Others
The authors take for granted that we will be restored to sanity by the application of the principles outlined in this book. They are also certain that we will receive the same benefits from taking these steps as they received.
The result of working A.A.'s Twelve Steps is a spiritual awakening. To broaden and deepen our spirituality becomes our focus. "Faith without works is dead." The study and practice of how to carry this message can be the most worthwhile effort of our lives. Working with others is an experience we must not miss. Through a great deal of trial and error the early members worked out a method for approaching a practicing alcoholic. If we follow the instructions given here we stand the greatest chance of success.
The end of our indifference to spiritual principles allows us to see the great opportunity we have to carry the message that we have so freely been given. The ability to be be truly useful and the actions we take to do this fill our lives with purpose and meaning. The promose of a fellowship growing up around us is a promise of true satisfaction in life.
The authors walk us through the initial contacts so that we may be of maximum use in helping the alcoholic to find the solution offered through the practice of the Twelve Steps. Step by step instructions are given on how to best help the family of the alcoholic. Guidance is also offered to help us arrange the intial visit and to present the solution in a way that will be most successful.
Working With Others begins by explaining the practical considerations behind the suggestion to carry the message (89:1-5). The benefits of carrying the message are detailed (89:7-10). Ways to find a prospect are suggested (89:11-13). We are cautioned to avoid arousing prejudice (89:14-19). Important considerations for qualifying the prospect & timing our approach (90:1-91:12). The importance of gaining our prospect'c confidence and ways to accomplish this are illustrated (91:13-92:6). Detailed are ways to most effectively present the foundation concepts of hopelessness (92:7-18), and hope of a solution (92:18-93:7). We are again counseled to avoid arousing prejudice (93:8-94:1). Ways to present the program of action (94:2-16), and introduce the fellowship (94:18) are explained. Successful techniques for carrying the message are illustrated (95:1-96:12) such as; being helpful (96:13-98:3), avoiding enabling (98:4-11), dealing with domestic problems (98:12-100:17), and avoiding intolerance (103:2-12). The reasons for all this effort is made clear; spiritual fitness protects us from drinking (100:18-103:1).