hey Johnnie -
Welcome to SR.
wow. divorce. been therre, did that one ... four times.
never did get the hang of it.
I hope you'll take a look around, and particularly read the stickies on the top of each forum. There's a wealth of information and linkages to other information that is quite useful.
Please - DO continue to post, and others will be along as they arrive to welcome you!
SR is a very supportive, interesting batch of people with quite common problems.