Take care of you! I have found that wasting energy on others that refuse to do things for themselves is a waste of my precious time-if they want to help themselves and are serious about I will lend a supporting hand or ear! But until then......it is all about ME!
listen to rella and the others queenteree.
he is manipulating you! dont feel bad about falling for it
most of us are fine masters in the art of deception and manipulation. if only we could put that type of effort into sorting out our addiction.
seems to me that he is not committed at all to recovery.
i hope you dont mind me jumping in, im just giving you an alcoholics perspective on it. (not drinking today, dont intend to tomorrow either)
bless
kate :ghug3