Originally Posted by
LaTeeDa 
Instead of figuring out where the single guys are, try figuring out where you want to be. Then you will meet people who have something in common with you.
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EXCELLENT point, i never really thought about it that way. I tend to go where i THINK they might be and usually nope, not there! I go to the gym daily and have ventured out to the free weight room way more than i ever did. It's ALOT of guys, which is intimidating especially if i don't like my body image at the gym, but what the hell, we are all there for the same reason, right?!! So i've been conscious of keeping a pleasant face walking around and making eye contact more and more. These guys at my gym are SO nice, i always thought no one would really talk but they do
p.s. hey Geees i even got a wink from some guy a few weeks ago and was taken back lol