Originally Posted by
bwgaede 
oh yeah she told me she would come find me when she is ready so........?
And if you're still there waiting, you can get back together. The
choice to wait is yours. There are several possible outcomes. She finds you, you've waited and you get back together; she finds you, you've met someone else and moved on; she finds you to tell you she's met someone else.
I'd keep up the meetings, learn to take control of my own life (which is what I did).
Good luck and keep posting!