She perhaps feels that jumping back into a relationship with you will not help her recovery, she needs the time to sort out who she is... as for she will come and find you when she is ready.. if you start working on you - you may find you have walked a long way and she cannot catch up - you may not want her too
I know this is a hard time but you need to do what is right for you - you may find your way back to each other but you may not.. one day at a time
shakarris