Hi Bookmiser, Congrads on the wedding. I'm so happy your finding some happiness. I'm in the same boat as you but I have put the "STOP" to handing over money anymore. My son is a cocaine addict and I thought we had it licked. He spent 8 weeks in rehab, came out and lived with us for a bit, got his own apartment and I have the feeling he's back on the stuff again. There's absolutely nothing I can do and it drives me batty. But I have to believe in "Let go and let God". The longer this codepent:codiepolice:codieancy goes on the longer he'll be hurting himself. What a mess, huh?? So, good luck with stopping the help!! It's so hard for moms so we have to stick together.. Smiles, Bonnie