Welcome to SR pink! Glad that you found us! Please keep coming back and posting and check out the sticky's at the top of the forum. This place is a great source of Inspiration.
sorry for your pain-
And considering Al-Anon is not a bad suggestion-I sat and listened my first few meetings and it really has helped my life-
They A's never believe they have a drinking problem.....just like I did not believe that I had a problem (codie
and I did ) ....and as for confrontation I do not know many people that do when they know in some sort of way that they are part of the problem.
Solution: Counseling is a good way to maybe approach her ...it is a start Good luck to you!