Yeah, I realize that it may not do any kind of good, but I also feel like I need to make the effort to try that step. We've only talked in response to actual occasions and I want this to be more of an all encompassing thing. She told me when we first got married that if anything was going wrong in our relationship, she would be willing to try counseling before bailing...
That is what I'm going to suggest this weekend. That we go to couples counseling, at least at first. But a big part of me has every expectation that I will be single before the spring...she doesn't like any sort of confrontation and she doesn't believe she has a problem drinking...
I've been very tempted to ask her friends to help me. They like me and they agree she has a problem.