Maybe I should put it this way
I'm actullay affraid that I will not know what to do or how to act to him getting sober. I'm affraid that I will be mean just because I want to keep my gaued up, I get rather bitchy when I'm affraid of the unknown. Any suggestions on how you all handled the sobriety of your loved one would be great. How will I know for sure? How did you all react the first time they said they were sober?