I know once this is all done and she is gone it is going to feel good to see my mother not stressed over her . It breaks my heart to see my mom and my sister go through soo much pain and guilt over her . My mom and sister are soo alike in the way they handle situations with my niece . I am glad to have them both working with me now instead of against me . They were always soo scared to put her out but I am really hopeful that they now realize just how much they have been enabling her for so many years .