Its nearly impossible to get rid of an addict I have heard. He sounds asif he is throwing his weight around. You told him you wouldn't take it anymore. If he's anything like my abf this will be your 'punishment period', he is showing you that dispite what you say, he wants to have control over the senario.... He will decide when he drinks how much he drinks and you cannot tell him otherwise. You wanted me to go? well now I'm gone. See how much you enjoy me not being around. I know that when I threaten you with my walking out you beg forgiveness. This is my way back in, because I will not change. You apologise to me, accept me who I am and stop complaining about me/our relationship. I have all I need, my beer and a codie to run around after me. Heck if you don't want the job, I'll find someone who does.
That was the way it was for me and my abf, before I started to leave him to his own mess, detach and heal myself.
Lilyxxxxxxxxx