I'm so confused still by this too!! Still!!! I guess for me, at the time i met J my picker was not off and this person was the one i was suppose to meet. My first reaction to this is how would anyone give/get a chance to be with someone if everyone thought their picker may be off without knowing how things will work out. BUT, i ignored alot of red flags so i guess that's where i should have walked and moved onto someone healthy and emotionally available to me. I'm hoping that my picker is on track a little better the next time around!
Paj ~ this is a great thread! Thanks for starting this one
