From reading a lot about men and the difference, Men are somehow born problem solvers.
So they are not going to go to anyone for a long talk, they arn't going to a psychologist for emotional help.
You never see them with a self help book.
When they have some anxiety or worried about something, they are men, so booze is the Rx needed. After so long, the the booze causes the anxiety, so take more RX. They don't realize that it quit working.
Many many men would not be caught dead at an Al-Anon meeting, sad, but thats how it is.
We are lucky that some go to AlAnon and learn the program.
Seems teen aged boys only intersted in sports, mechanic's etc.
Any of this make sense.
Then we females if we start to fall for the guy we swear we love football, all other ball games, we act like we like to party, we love camping and fishing and hunting, boating, etc.
Sorta misrepresent ourselves or learn in a hurry we don't like that stuff.
He thinks he married his play mate, we want babies then he is supposed to love staying home with the baby, and go to family things, and things for the kids.
Their life as they knew it or what they thought is gone.
Am I off topic here? I should not have tried to post as am falling asleep.
Take was you can use and leave the rest, and there are always exceptions. we are not all alike.