Originally Posted by
Kindeyes 
ICU
I'm sorry to hear that you are under some stress. Here's a HUG for you!
Awwww...thanks, I needed that!
Originally Posted by
Kindeyes I know that it's not logical to think of the why's and what I could have done differently. It's probably my co-dependence thinking shining through.
I don't think it's illogical to think that way either! Maybe it's just good old 'human nature' (loving, caring, wanting the best for the people we love kind of thing) to think that way initially. It's what we do beyond that initial thought that gets me trapped sometimes.