[QUOTE=familymember;1605574] I think I am under the impression that in some way me being there for him has saved him. Am I being silly to think I have so much control?? Oh the word control...... such a scary word for me.QUOTE]
If you had the control and were able to save him, you wouldn't be needing to have this conversation.
It's so hard isn't it? I struggle with the codependency everyday, I want so much to save my son. But after leaving him alone for awhile guess what, he is saving himself.
good luck :codiepolice