Thank you for your kind words- all of you. Hopeangel- I did say we'd go through this together- didn't I? It helps me to know I am not alone in this insanity. The mind games are incredible. I am just crabby that a grown man will not take responsibility for anything! I am left with so much to do that I wish I could take a year off to do it- and then another to sleep! Good reminder B52- make lists. (Hey- B52- I like that!)