I find myself 2 months in having problems, or rather creating problems.
When you sense something is wrong, something is wrong....might be you, might be him.
He gets jealous when just I mention other men at work or from my past that I am friendly with.
That is a very big red flag, IMO. Watch out for people who try to control other people. Read, Beyond Co-dependency by Melody Beattie!
He keeps questioning me about whether I am sick of him yet etc
The only man who ever asked me those questions was XABF. I felt as if he was trying to tell me that he was not good enough for me.
Sket...I only know that little about yourself which you have posted here but when you mention that you feel like you don't understand yourself, maybe you have to take the time to learn who you are.
ARL