Thank you all for replying...I did open a new account this morning...he can not get to that one...I have just been carefully watching the joint one because any charges I will also be responsible for. I do not plan on putting ANY more money in that acct.
I like your idea of taking just one thing at a time out of the closet and handling that alone. I am awaiting a packet from the child support division to start that process for both fathers. Tues is the next appt that I can attend.
About the forclosure, I spoke with someone who might be able to help us keep our home. They may lower our interest rate and roll all of our accrued pmts and late charges to the end of the loan. My ex husband just needs to give them his information. I am praying about that one.
And as soon as my unemplyment check comes I can pay the tags on one of the cars and now since XAB is gone I dont need to keep the other, I can let them repo it.
I am just so bewildered.....normally when he leaves I feel like I will die...