For me it was "system overload".... My AH moved out several years ago and eventually divorced me and I did not really start to feel it until after the divorce. I am still just becomeing aware of many feelings,breaking my denial,etc. Last year my doctor told me he was happy to see I was starting to get angry....I can only be that was in short spurts. I think I still have a long,long way to go; but then again we were together almost thirty years and it took a while to get to the point it did.
Glad you are here..it really is a process. It seems to take what it takes.
Last edited by Pick-a-name; 12-14-2007 at 02:50 PM.