I've been in training since I was three to smooth things over in family issues. That explains a lot, huh?
Letting it go is sooooo hard when you've had years of experience 'holding on', even when it wasn't your issue to begin with. I still struggle with it today, but I have a plan of attack....I ask myself so many questions now before I say or do something. By that time, I'm too emotionally drained to do anything, LOL!!
Nice message Kindeyes!!