I hate confrontation. In my life I have attempted to avoid it whenever I can, but always seem to be in the midst of it. I am realising now that I have a fear of people not getting along. In my home as a child, when my parents argued, it either led to my Dad becoming agressive and threatening, or walking out on us. He would always come back, but I am left with that fear of abandonment now. I struggle with finding another solution to conflict other than these two routes.
In my attempts at 'surviving' an arguement I am involved in, I will resort to taking blame for everything in order for the tension to pass. When others around me argue, I do as you- I 'Fix' it.
I am codependent.