Well my RAH detoxed and withdrew in our house, in our bed and I didn't do crap for him. He put himself into the mess so he could deal with it.
Its up to you what you want to do for him and how much you want to do for him. Its not our responsibility to do anything for them, they are adults and can handle themselves but I understand where you are coming from.
(((abundance))) I hope you have a good weekend.