Good Advise
I agree with Hopeangle. Recording machines are now small enough that you could keep one on your person with out him knowing. Write everything down big or small. Start collecting all your past receipts and make copies so you can prove that your the one supporting the household. If he threatens you call the police.If he hurts your greyhound I would gladly come to where you are and Bite him myself. I have a Whippet and know that both breeds have nothing but love for every one. I'm lucky that my AH isn't abusive but he is just as brain damaged as all the others. He's highly functional, has been drinking for 30 years but doesn't see that he has a problem. I hope that your able to find some peace of mind and keep coming back here. The people here give great advise and really care.