Tellus,
The same has happened for me. Every shrink I go to tells me I have all the characteristics of someone that was sexually abused.
I never thought I was. But now looking back at boundary issues and such in high school - boys would do things I didn't want them to do. And I was usually drunk. So, I don't know if that would be abuse? I always just did it to keep up with the crowd or feel loved.
That's my resent breakthrough with therapy.