You know, there is a radio program called "Unshackled" by Chicago's oldest homeless shelter, Pacific Garden Mission. It was founded in 1877 and continues to help people to this day!
Since my son has been homeless in the past, this radio program helped me through those times that I felt sorry for him.
It's a kind of old time radio theatre type program thats Christian based.
It's also true stories of people who were down and out, homeless and jobless and wound up changing their lives.
My son straightened out. It has been a long hard road, and continues to be, but he is working and living in a half way house now. That's a huge step up.
You see, they won't do anything about themselves until they suffer enough. That "enough" is up to them. If we continue to get in the way of their recovery, they never get well.
I am sorry you're hurting. I know that pain well. But, bellieve me, HP is working on your xh.