I am sorry for you and your feelings Kermit, but I am not sorry for your Ex. This may be EXACTLY what he needs, to have the 'light bulb' finally go off. Being homeless at this time of year in N. Dakota can be a REAL AWAKENING.
Hang in there, keep posting here, you know we are here for you! You can get through this. There is HOPE. This may be just what he needs, the impetus to get him olff his dead azz so to speak and do something for himself!!!!!
In my mind this is GOOD NEWS. No enablers so now he has to do for himself.
Keep posting, let us know how you are doing, we are here for you! You have come so far!
Love and hugs,