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ICU OK, so you've made your decision for now. To be honest, I went back and forth when in a similar situation, so I know what that feels like.
May I just ask that you consider devising a safety plan, in advance, so that if you need to make a quick exit, even if it's just for the night, that you are prepared?
A call to a domestic violence helpline can assist you with what would best suit your needs. That way you can make the best of listening to both your heart AND your brain! (I hope that came out right)
Ditto too
codie over here did the same thing over and over...it is what we do until we have had enough! (Our bottom shall we say)
What ICU states here I cannot agree or stress this more about devising a "safety plan" it may sound as if AH is going to follow through with what he says but in my eyes and many others I'm sure it is just that "words" until they are followed with action please be aware and try not to ignore your gutt when feelings arise!
Many thoughts to you hope!