Old 12-06-2007, 07:32 AM
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Originally Posted by hopeangel View Post
so, my brain knows he will most likely drink again very soon, be angry and abusive again, very soon. my brainn knows all the logic. my heart is still calling the shots though...
OK, so you've made your decision for now. To be honest, I went back and forth when in a similar situation, so I know what that feels like.

May I just ask that you consider devising a safety plan, in advance, so that if you need to make a quick exit, even if it's just for the night, that you are prepared?

A call to a domestic violence helpline can assist you with what would best suit your needs. That way you can make the best of listening to both your heart AND your brain! (I hope that came out right)
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