Lilyflower, I've got two re: abuse linked above and I'm working on recreating two more.
Here's a few more I've found (I don't think I've duplicated anyone else's efforts, but I'm not sure)...
Boundary Setting Tips:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ghlight=sticky
Hooks that keep you boundary-less:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ghlight=sticky
Love Illusion:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ghlight=sticky