I love my mother, for who she is when she is clean...If thats what you mean? I am just tired of being her mother, when she is messed up....But you are right, I have my own family now....I have told my mother not to come around when she has fallen...But she seems to just throw my words out the window and do what ever she pleases...I know what you mean when you say multiple addicts, my mom (heroin) my aunt (alcohol) my uncle (alcohol) so I know what you are saying there...I must say though my uncle cleaned himself up, my aunt she still drinks, but has slowed down alot (from what I have been told) I dont see her anymore...My mother, well shes doing pretty good *righ now* until she gets depressed or what ever....I dont know sometimes I am just an angry person, towards her...Why couldnt I have a *so called* normal life....
Thank you for your kind words....