thank you all,
you are right.
everything said, was EXACTLY what I needed to hear. love and support as well as redirection of my mindset.
Especially Moose's "get a grip"!:mock
Its weird how you know you are doing the right thing but that little guilt voice still needs a good "smack-down".
Someone posted yesterday on HOPE.
And I am realizing that Hope for me, was hope for my son's recovery and return. when he gets like that it seems so far away.
I know as someone said here: The Hope should be for our lives to return as well as theirs.
Thanks.
Love you my friends,:ghug
Cathy