I separated from my AH a little over a week ago. He has stopped drinking and started an outpatient program.
But, I did not leave to "make him stop drinking". I left to make a healthy home for my son and I and to be in a place to work on my own issues and recovery. I hope he recovers and stays sober. But, I cannot control his choices, only mine.
Best of luck to you in your choices. I agree with everybody, getting my home stable, peaceful and loving, with no alcoholic drama is the best thing I could have done for my son and myself.
Hugs.