Have you ever gotten a ticket from a cop and been so pissed off and swore at him up and down and all you could think about is your insurance going up, the fine you have to pay, the class you probably have to take, and you know you weren't speeding, and damit just hated that cop.
Then later you see a cop pull over a drunk driver that may have saved your life and you think, oh the cops are only doing their job, and maybe I was speeding, and he was really just protecting me cuz maybe I shouldn't be doing 80 in a 60 mph.
Or whatever.....
But at the time he pulls you over, all you can think of is how angry you are, and haven't we all tried to get our way out of a traffic ticket?
I don't know if that makes any sense to you, but your son loves you, that's just where his mind is, he can only see so far in his little bubble of his world.
His world isn't making sense so he's trying to make it make sense, and his first
way is "for Mom to fix it"....
It's about HIM, and how he sees his world, not about his love for you.
Don't confuse the too, they are very different. He will always love you.
JMO.... and how I see it, lol..