Originally Posted by
Gettingstronger 
Hi all,
So we are all supposed to just be happy he is better and none of the old stuff gets addressed. That angers me. Any thoughts?
That approach would not work for me. But then I already came to the realization that our marriage was dead and there was no way to revive it.
Originally Posted by
Gettingstronger Oh has anyone read the chapter for wivws in the big book of AA.
I read as much as I could stand before my gag reflex kicked in. To me it read like advice to women of a different time and place. I am not willing to subvert my own needs for any individual the way that advice would require.