Dev,
I had a dealer call my house once. My son was staying with us at the time.
He'd just gotten out of jail and was on house arrest.
The guy pretended to be a concerned friend who just wanted to tell my son to keep his nose clean. Not!
He was letting my son know that his drugs would be in my mailbox tomorrow.
The next day my son told me he owed someone money and if he didn't pay the guy, the guy knew where we lived and he was gonna burn my house down.
Threat or not, I gave him 80.00
Then I called the probation officer and told him to come and get my son because he'd used drugs and broke probation.
They came the next morning and arrested him.
Which caused my son to have to stay in jail for 6 months.
My point...go to the source.
The source is the user.
Stay out of it or put him out. Those seem to be your options.
I'm sorry to be so blunt. I just hate to see you driving yourself crazy when you can't change anything. If he wants to use, he's gonna use.
You need to take care of yourself and your child.
I'm sorry for your pain.
:praying