Originally Posted by
DevastatedJP 
Then he's high again. What do I do? He just will deny it, get mad and leave.
As you said, there is just no point in asking an active addict if they are using, it never goes anyplace good.
You can't change him or what is, but you can find help for yourself. I don't recall if you go to meetings, but I know when I go through times like this, it always helps to go to lots of meetings and surround myself with support while I put the focus of my life back on me.
Hugs