puddin, welcome to S.R. can the addict love you? the addict loves his drug & can not love you until they can love themselves. if he is in rehab & he gets clean & really works the program while he is in there & when he comes out gets himself in a program he possiblely can. i would not jump back into this with him.he needs time for himself if he is serious about staying clean.he needs to work on himself.it is really up to you if u let him come home but from what i see with my addict son most of them relapse & some never do find their way clean & sober. i am sorry u r going thru this.you deserve so much better than what he has given you.take this time to work on yourself by reading all the post here & find a naranon program to attend.it is a long hard road with an addict.read the top of the forum"what addicts do" keep coming back & let us know how things are going.we care & are here to support you. hugs,hope