how did that old Beatles tune go...
"One is the loneliest number, two can be as bad as one, it's the loneliest number since the number one..."
Alone, 4 years....since the divorce...
alone about 15 years all together......ie: it ended a very longtime before it was officially over...
be careful what you wish for...
don't be in a big hurry...
find out who you are, what things interests you, take some classes in art, karate, skydiving, yoga...
go to the library, the collage, the car shows and hang out where the men are...
Tool stores are another idea...
Have a home improvement idea?
Go walk around Lowe's or Menards (a big home improvement store), and ask for advice...
you will "find" someone when you are not looking...is what they tell me.
The place that I'm not looking is in the bars.
LOL