For me...
Detachment means I do not have my 2 alcoholicaddicts
in my home. I am willing to do contact on neutral
space but actually prefer phone calls.
Also..I never believe a single thing they say.
I started dealing with the addicted them
when they were 17/18. Ten years later
is when I got to my detachment point.
That's when I turned them over to Gods care.
Here we are many years later..as far as I know
they are still in and out of addiction.
I have found recovery and sanity.
Blessings