HopeAngel, and the others, you have once again reminded me that I still have power struggles in my mind with the XABF. I hate to lose, and for whatever reason, I feel like I have lost "the game." Now, this game was not worth fighting, it is not one that I can win, and I do NOT like game-playing situations! In the past I have always walked away from them! So why, when my XABF told me "you are a checkers player, and I am a chess player" pretty much announcing that he was playing a game with me ... why did I sit at the chess board and start playing a game that I hate?! Talk about DUMB!!!!